I am so sick of pretending “busy” is always good. Yes, staying occupied can keep me from spiraling sometimes. Yes, structure matters. Yes, there’s too much to do anyway. But busyness is not healing. Sometimes it’s just delayed impact. Sometimes it’s emotional debt. If I outrun the grief all day, it usually finds me at night with interest.
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