Divorce grief is being expected to tell a cleaner story than the one your body knows. People want blame because blame is tidier than grief. I miss someone I am also angry at and that is exhausting. The house sounds like a place pretending to be neutral. The handoff parking lot holds more fury than any courtroom speech could. I am grieving a family shape even on the days I know leaving was right. I am tired of translating this into something other people find acceptable.
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